Couples Online Workshop Experience
A year of monthly connection and intimacy dates,
guided by me.
FOR COUPLES TO EXPLORE TOGETHER
*Doors close June 20
This is a date a month, with activities you do together
to try something new and create incredible connection!
All you've got to do is sign up
& book in 1.5 hours to be together, once a month!
This is for couples who:
✤ Want to learn how to open their partner and create electric moments throughout their week
✤ Know they're great together, but need help to realign their focus onto their partner and relationship
✤ Want to be together, but parenting feels like the only thing you do at the moment
✤ Want to make the time for each other, but feel like passing ships and you're exhausted
✤ Want to expand their intimacy and connection, so you both feel seen and chosen every day
✤ Want to practice, with guidance, the masc and femme tantric polarity 'stuff' that creates surrender, seduction and desire
✤ Want more intimacy, but at the moment that feels hard, with too much expectation and resentment
This is your opportunity to reduce your mental load and expand your intimacy, relationship and connection.
It's NOT another thing on your to-do list.
This is picking a single 1.5 hours once a month to be together,
doing a date-activity that gives you more rewards than sitting across the table at dinner with mindless chit-chat.
All you've got to do, is book in the dates and press play!
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What you'll get out of it
Want to feel like you're on the same team, throughout the whole month's ups and downs?
These dates create a stronger connection that feeds your whole month
Intentional activity-dates leave you and your partner feeling more connected, supported, chosen and adored, deepening your intimacy
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Want to crave your partner and have them crave you?
Create sizzle between you Instead of hitting 'pause' on your intimacy because...kids/work/life, let's light a fire under it!
Creating dates with intentional connection-stimulating activities creates spark between you...and the desire for more.
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Want to always have tools and skills up your sleeve, so no matter the moment,
you know how to make it more connected?
Better communication
I'll teach you the simple tips and tricks to soften, open, connect and communicate with your partner - all while having fun!
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Want to create dates that raise the bar on your connection, communication and intimacy?
Fun, scheduled dates that you don't have to organise and are guaranteed to bring play, novelty, excitement and newness to your relationship!
Dates that bring you closer together and prioritise your connection.
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Want a partner who just looks at you and you feel like you're the bees-knees?
A contended partner and fulfilling relationship that resonates across your whole life.
You know when you're a connected-team there's nothing you can't achieve - from greater success at work, to more easeful parenting, to feeling on top of your game!
12 dates,
guided by me.
Month 1 - Passion + Polarity
Month 2 - Savour Me
Month 3 - Handling Me, You + Criticism
Month 4 - Presence of a King
Month 5 - Open Me
Month 6 - Inviting Magnetism
Month 7 - Voice + Words
Month 8 - Giving + Initiating
Month 9 - Responsive to her
Month 10 - Power Play
Month 11 - Yoni Worship
*I'll guide you in a practice of sexual healing, creating an experience
of receiving for your partner and feeling pleasure from giving.
Month 12 - Cock Worship
*I'll guide you in a practice of sexual healing, creating an experience
of receiving for your partner and feeling pleasure from giving.
Join camera off - it's a completely private experience,
in the comfort of your own home, focused on the two of you.
I'm just there offering you new things to try!
In these guided dates you'll have fun while you learn:
↬ How to understand what women want ↬ What women mean ↬ How to open her like you never have before↬ How to get each others needs met and feel great while you do↬ Trusting your man to 'have you' in all the ways ↬ Feeling his intention and learning how to open to that↬ Creating intense polarity between you, in your every day, with kids around!
Plus:↬ Sinking into feeling sensation and expanding your sensuality within yourself and with your partner↬ Moving beyond judgement, resentment and seeing your partner in a 'they can't meet me' light↬ Practice softening and opening with your partner↬ Try out tantric breath and life practices, in a relaxed environment
↬ Learning how to calm your own inner world, so you are free to meet your partner and create a completely different outcome in your 'tenser moments'↬ Creating new communication skills that include your body language...which will change everything in a moment with your partner
≪•◦ ❈ ◦•≫No pressure on anyone to lead, know anything or have any energy/tantric understanding.You do not need to have completed Queen School or Lovers School to do this.This is me, setting you up to connect and meet each other…so your whole month is flavoured with that experience.≪•◦ ❈ ◦•≫
12 coaching sessions
Each month will have a 1 hour group coaching session where I am open and available to help you with anything that's come up for either of you during that month's content and as you evolve your intimacy and connection.
You've got me in your back pocket, so you're completely set up for success together!
There's no pressure to join these calls,
they're here to support you and your relationship,
if you want it.
FOCUSED attention on yOUR LOVER
2 x focus-prompts per month,
straight to your phone.
Life is busy! We all need little 'love-notes' (aka texts to our phone) to keep our partner, our sexual-aliveness and our relationship front of mind. This is just another 'structure' that helps you create lasting change.
Take or leave it!
No pressure to do these prompts!
They're just there to help you keep relationship,
your lover and your connection front of mind.
This is a ‘set it and forget it’ system for your relationship & intimacy
For couples who want to be together, but find it hard to make time for each other and intimacy
For couples who want to be together, but find it hard to make time for each other and intimacy
↠ Sign up ↠ Book your dates in both your calendars↠ Relax! I got you, boo.
Why a ‘set it and forget it’ system?! It's not very sexy, is it?
It's certainly not spontaneous.
I want passion, damn it. Not another thing on my to-do list.
Yep, I get it.
But you know, here's the thing:
Life's busy and relationship has a funny way of slipping to the bottom of your priority list...
And then you feel disconnected, clunky, resentful, unseen, undesired, under-appreciated...
Life gets harder, you stay where you are in the relationship cycles you're in, there's no change.
It's certainly not spontaneous.
I want passion, damn it. Not another thing on my to-do list.
Yep, I get it.
But you know, here's the thing:
Life's busy and relationship has a funny way of slipping to the bottom of your priority list...
Let's change that!
Intentional dates together get to be super sexy and fun!
And while you're having fun, you're learning:
✩ how to create a smoother relationship
✩ tips on turning your woman on
✩ ways to make your woman open to deeper pleasure
✩ to understand what he enjoys and loves in you
(and it's not working harder!)
I'm Jules & I'm a lover.
A mother of four. A partner of 20 years. A trauma-responsive practitioner, who's travelled a path of awakening sexuality for connection, empowerment and fulfilment.
I deeply understand the complex mix of parenthood, relationship and sexuality:
- to feel like you no longer recognise your body, feel touched-out by parenthood and resentful of your partner.
- mismatched sex drives
- awkward or poor communication
- wanting to let go, yet it is seems like the last thing you can do
- craving to be taken, wanting to feel desirable and seen in all the ways, but not knowing how
- wanting to meet your partner, only to feel like you always get it wrong and come crashing into old rejection wounds
It's okay. Leave your self-judgement at the door. We're here to grow, learn and step beyond our self-sabotage into deeply fulfilling connection with our body, partner and sexuality.
“Seriously, my husband and I are having some of the best conversations,
the best sex and the best intimacy”
- Sarah
This feels intimate, how does it roll?
This is an entirely online experience, focused on you two as a couple.
For our Date-time Workshops:
Join our group call via Zoom, with your camera off - this is a completely private experience you follow along with in the comfort of your own home. These calls are recorded, with my pinned video and whether you join live or play the replay (at a date-time that suits you), it is exactly the same guided experience.
For the Coaching Sessions:
These calls are for your support - I'm there on a zoom call every single month to offer you coaching, guidance or answer any questions you have. Join together or solo, if it FEELS GOOD for you.
There is zero pressure to be on these calls, they are literally here just so you have a touch-point with me, if you need it.
For the 'Secret Texts':
If you'd like to use this service, I'll ask you to submit a phone number for the masc-identified partner (men)
and the femme-identified partner (women) - two separate numbers.
I'll text you twice a month with an idea to try, to create ecstatic polarity and connection between you and your partner.
* All information is emailed to you.
* All workshops and coaching calls are recorded, replay links are sent via email.
"If there’s a little micro sensation in your body of “I want that. I really want that” then just do the thing. Your head will always come up with ways to keep you in your comfort zone and to keep you where you’re at.”
- Charmaine
Spend quality time loving & exploring each other
Join live or follow
along on the replay.
You get to be best friends + lovers
You can have both:
↬ love AND desire
↬ monogamy AND hot sex
↬ parents AND lovers
Dates for your diary
PLEASE NOTE: EVERY EFFORT HAS BEEN MADE TO ACCOMMODATE AS MANY TIME
ZONES AS POSSIBLE.
I'D LOVE YOU TO CONSIDER THIS YOUR INVITATION TO:
Explore each other and how you love, at different times during the day,
so you can bring fresh energy and play with novelty!
These workshops are an invitation into creating something special, you wouldn't normally 'allow' yourself.
Instead of "I can't"
Ask yourself "HOW can I?"...
Breakfast dates
Can the kids stay overnight somewhere the night before?
Can you have a late morning pick up?
Can you hire a babysitter or ask a friend/family for playdate for 3 hours?
Can you start late at work?
Can you work from home?
lunchtime dates
Can you take a long lunch at work?
Can you take a day off work?
Can you work from home and choose your lunch break time?
Can you get someone else to do a kinder pick up and play for an hour?
Can you get babysitting for 3 hours over lunch?
Dinner dates
Can the kids have a sleepover somewhere?
Can you have a friend/babysitter stay at yours and you hire a hotel room for the night?
Can you organise a date-swap with a friend?
Can the kids have a dinner and movie out with grandparents?
After-kids-are-in-bed dates
Could you get babysitters or kids have a sleepover?
Can you create a 'sanctuary' in the lounge room, instead of your bedroom?
How can you set yourselves up so no-one falls asleep putting kids to bed, or zonks out in front of the TV before the date?
If we waited for 'the perfect time',
or when grandparents could have our kids,
we'd be waiting a very long time!
Get creative, prioritise relationship
and your connection together...there's always a way.
Date-time Workshops
These are your guided date, dates!
Workshop 1 - JULY
Melbourne - Tue 5th, 8pm
Perth - Tue 5th, 6pm
NZ - Tue 5th, 10pm
London - Tue 5th, 11am
NY - Tue 5th, 6am
Workshop 2 - AUGUST
Melbourne - Sat 6th, 5pm
Perth - Sat 6th, 3pm
NZ - Sat 6th, 7pm
London - Sat 6th, 8am
NY - Sat 5th, 3am
Workshop 3 - SEPTEMBER
Melbourne - Sat 3rd,10am
Perth - Sat 3rd, 8am
NZ - Sat 3rd, 12pm
London - Fri 2nd, 1am
NY - Fri 2nd, 8pm
Workshop 4 - OCTOBER
Melbourne - Tue 11th, 8pm
Perth - Tue 11th, 5pm
NZ - Tue 11th, 10pm
London - Tue 11th, 10am
NY - Tue 11th, 5am
Workshop 5 - NOVEMBER
Melbourne - Sun 6th, 11am
Perth - Sun 6th, 8am
NZ - Sun 6th, 1pm
London - Sat 5th, 12am
NY - Sat 5th, 7pm
Workshop 6 - DECEMBER
Melbourne - Sun 4th, 8pm
Perth - Sun 4th, 5pm
NZ - Sun 4th, 10pm
London - Sun 4th, 9am
NY - Sun 4th, 4am
Workshop 7 - JANUARY '23
Melbourne - Tue 17th, 8pm
Perth - Tue 17th, 5pm
NZ - Tue 17th, 10pm
London - Tue 17th, 9am
NY - Tue 17th, 4am
Workshop 8 - FEBRUARY '23
Melbourne - Sun 5th, 10am
Perth - Sun 5th, 7am
NZ - Sun 5th, 12pm
London - Sat 4th, 11pm
NY - Sat 4th 6pm
Workshop 9 - MARCH '23
Melbourne - Sat 4th, 8pm
Perth - Sat 4th, 5pm
NZ - Sat 4th, 10pm
London - Sat 4th, 9am
NY - Sat 4th, 4am
Workshop 10 - APRIL '23
Melbourne - Tue 4th, 8pm
Perth - Tue 4th, 6pm
NZ - Tue 4th, 10pm
London - Tue 4th, 11am
NY - Tue 4th, 6am
Workshop 11 - MAY '23
Melbourne - Sat 6th, 8pm
Perth - Sat 6th, 5pm
NZ - Sat 6th, 10pm
London - Sat 6th, 11am
NY - Sat 6th, 6am
Workshop 12 - JUNE '23
Melbourne - Sat 3rd, 8pm
Perth - Sat 3rd, 6pm
NZ - Sat 3rd, 10pm
London - Sat 3rd, 11am
NY - Sat 3rd, 6am
*All calls will be recorded for replay, so you can follow along as a couple, at a time that suits you.
You'll be able to press play and follow along just like you were live!
Coaching Calls
*I'm on zoom, ready to help you and answer any questions, if and when you need it.
Coaching call 1 - JULY
Melbourne - Tue 19th, 8pm
Perth - Tue 19th, 6pm
NZ - Tue 19th, 10pm
London - Tue 19th, 11am
NY - Tue 19th, 6am
Coaching call 2 - AUGUST
Melbourne - Sat 20th, 5.30pm
Perth - Sat 20th, 3.30pm
NZ - Sat 20th, 7.30pm
London - Sat 20th, 8.30am
NY - Sat 20th, 3.30am
Coaching call 3 - SEPTEMBER
Melbourne - Tue 6th, 8pm
Perth - Tue 6th, 6pm
NZ -Tue 6th, 10pm
London - Tue 6th, 11am
NY - Tue 6th, 6am
Coaching call 4 - OCTOBER
Melbourne - Tue 18th, 8pm
Perth - Tue 18th, 5pm
NZ - Tue 18th, 10pm
London - Tue 18th, 10am
NY - Tue 18th, 5am
Coaching call 5 - NOVEMBER
Melbourne - Sat 19th, 1pm
Perth - Sat 19th, 10am
NZ - Sat 19th, 3pm
London - Sat 19th, 2am
NY - Fri 18th, 9pm
Coaching call 6 - DECEMBER
Melbourne - Sun 18th, 8am
Perth - Sun 4th, 5am
NZ - Sun 18th, 10am
London - Sat 18th, 9pm
NY - Sat 18th, 4pm
Coaching call 7 - JANUARY '23
Melbourne - Tue 24th, 8pm
Perth - Tue 24th, 5pm
NZ - Tue 24th, 10pm
London - Tue 24th, 9am
NY - Tue 24th, 4am
Coaching call 8 - FEBRUARY '23
Melbourne - Sat 25th, 1pm
Perth - Sat 25th, 10am
NZ - Sat 25th, 3pm
London - Sat 25th, 2am
NY - Fri 24th, 9pm
Coaching call 9 - MARCH '23
Melbourne - Sat 18th, 7pm
Perth - Sat 18th, 4pm
NZ - Sat 18th, 9pm
London - Sat 18th, 8am
NY - Sat 18th, 3am
Coaching call 10 - APRIL '23
Melbourne - Tue 18th, 8pm
Perth - Tue 18th, 6pm
NZ - Tue 18th, 10pm
London - Tue 18th, 11am
NY - Tue 18th, 6am
Coaching call 11 - MAY '23
Melbourne - Sun 21st, 10am
Perth - Sun 21st, 8am
NZ - Sun 21st, 12pm
London - Sun 21st, 1am
NY - Sat 20th, 8pm
Coaching call 12 - JUNE '23
Melbourne - Sat 17th, 8pm
Perth - Sat 17th, 6pm
NZ - Sat 17th, 10pm
London - Sat 17th, 11am
NY - Sat 17th, 6am
Can we join as non-binary or same sex couples?
Yes. However, it is important for you to know the content will use gendered language, and centre around male and female genital and physical anatomy.
A whole year of me guiding you and your intimacy...what do you think might be possible?!
Set an intention for where you want your relationship to be in 12 months.
Then, let's do it.
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
Can I join as a single person?
This is a couples experience - however, if you'd like to follow along with a friend, you're more than welcome.
Can I join if I haven't done Queen School or Lovers School?
Yes! This is a stand-alone experience, no pre-work required.
What is my time commitment to this program?
2 hour workshop once a month.
1 hour coaching call once a month.
You can join live for both, one or neither and watch the replays at a time that suits you!
How long will I have access to the Workshop content?
Each replay will be available for 2 months following the live event.
What if my partner and I haven't been intimate in a really long time?
Do you want to be?
If the answer is 'yes', then this program is a chance to bring that energy and attention back to an area of life that's not functioning in a way that lights you up.
I'll be guiding you through every step and am here to help you grow, expand and create the type of intimacy you crave. No matter where you are, I'll help you get to where you want to be. But it will require you're both committed to the workshops and the process of 'coming back together'.
If you're committed to each other and creating deeper connection and intimacy, then I'm committed to getting you there.
Are you able to support me after the program?
Yes! You have the option to join my private membership group - Honey Club (women only), or join the waitlist for my private coaching sessions.
You can also purchase Lovers School if you'd like to expand your sexuality journey via an online, self-paced course.