The date was AMAZING! My hubby was able to deliver because he had step by step instructions. It was a VERY powerful moment of connection. The sex afterwards was also great!
– Kiara
Reignite your relationship with just a few meaningful moments each month. Break out of your routine, breathe new energy into each other, and explore intimacy and play without feeling overwhelmed or like you're making your relationship and intimacy feel like an obligation.
Each date is designed to help you:
➾ Experience new adventures beyond typical date nights.
➾ Rekindle passion, create lasting memories, and deepen your connection.
➾ Improve communication, understand each other on a deeper level, and cultivate a romantic atmosphere primed for love and connection.
➾ Grow into the best versions of your partnership, bringing back excitement and lasting change to your relationship.
“Seriously, my husband and I are having some of the best conversations,
the best sex and the best intimacy”
- Sarah
Enjoy intimate date experiences right at home. Each session is designed to strengthen your bond without the need for babysitters, reservations, or fancy plans. Just you, your partner, and moments that bring you closer together.
Couples Dates creates space for the deeper conversations you didn’t know you were missing. Get to know your partner in fresh ways, uncover hidden desires, and learn to communicate without barriers—all without feeling forced or uncomfortable.
From lover skills to sensual connection, each session introduces playful activities, quick exercises, and new techniques that help you expand your intimacy and improve your sexual satisfaction. And don’t worry—it never feels like a “course.” Just easy, practical steps to grow together.
Explore tantra, deepen your sensual connection, and find new levels of sexual fulfilment. Couples Dates provides you with monthly activities and guided moments to bring more sensuality and satisfaction into your life—all while keeping it playful, fun, and real.
•Couples who deeply love each other and want to stay together but feel like they’re stuck in cycles of resentment, stonewalling, or emotional distance, and are ready to break free from these patterns.
•Partners who adore what they have but want to take their relationship deeper, more intimate, and more fun—without feeling like they’re “learning” or doing a formal course.
•Couples who want to prioritise their relationship but struggle to find the time to date, get out of the house, or lock in babysitters—Couples Dates brings intimacy and connection right into your home, without the hassle.
•Those who feel the attraction and desire fading and want to reignite that spark, reconnect emotionally, and bring passion back into their lives in a way that feels easy, playful, and fun.
•Women who are over-functioning and carrying the mental load of the household, feeling overwhelmed and disconnected, but who are ready to shift the balance, inviting more ease, pleasure, and support into their relationship.
•Couples who are eager to explore their sexual connection, improve their sex life, and enjoy sensual, engaging dates that help them feel closer—without it feeling like hard work.
•Partners who are curious about masculine and feminine energy dynamics and want to use this polarity to create more balance, attraction, and deeper satisfaction in their relationship.
•Couples who are ready to drop the frustration and overwhelm, replacing it with playful, simple ways to deepen communication, reignite intimacy, and truly enjoy each other again—whether it’s a cozy night in or something a little sexier.
I get it—date night shouldn’t be another item on your never-ending to-do list. It’s not something you want to feel pressure around, another thing to “get right,” or be disappointed about if it doesn’t happen. And you don’t want to be the one leading it, finding new ways to bring back the “spice,” or waiting for the perfect moment of spontaneity (that never quite arrives). It all feels heavy when you’re already maxed out with life.
That’s where Couples Dates comes in.
With ready-made date experiences, guided themes, and fun ways to connect, all you have to do is show up and enjoy each other—no planning or stress required.
"It was so great - thanks Julie! We couldn’t choose only one thing to take with us, we had 4! Loving these dates so much. They’ve paired so beautifully with the marriage counselling we’ve already done, but with more fun and body connection."
– Jules
This is NOT a program for couples who:
- Find their relationship on rocky ground right now
- Struggle to communicate and find they quickly 'explode'
- Are not willing to try new things and ways of responding to their partner
- Have different ideas on what they want from their ‘ideal’ relationship
- Are not prepared to have open and honest conversations with each other
- Are not willing to invest time or energy into improving their relationship or who want a quick fix without diving into emotional and physical connection.
- Are not open to exploring their intimacy, discussing desire, or looking at how they can heal past emotional or sexual wounds.
- Are not interested in breaking out of old patterns like over-functioning, stonewalling, or control and aren’t open to new, playful ways of deepening connection.
- Aren’t interested in exploring masculine and feminine energy dynamics or feel uncomfortable exploring new, sensual sides of their relationship.
- Looking for a highly traditional, rigid approach to relationships and aren’t interested in fun, exploration, or deepening emotional and sexual satisfaction.
Each month, you'll receive an email with the theme and date night video link (plus access on the course platform anytime). Enjoy fun, easy activities to bond, rediscover each other, and explore your relationship—all from the comfort of home. Just click play and let the private date night fun begin!
**All dates are pre-recorded so that you CAN commit to the date with your partner at a time and place that suits you both each month.
This guidebook will help you set the mood, ask the deeper questions and encourage intimacy between you and your partner. Everything included is simple and designed to make Date Night something you both look forward to each month.
We know that building a stronger relationship comes with its own challenges. That’s why Julie will split you into small, intimate ‘couple pods’ designed to support you. In this safe environment, you’ll connect with other couples, share openly, ask questions, and be vulnerable—all while receiving personalized guidance from Julie. These pods enhance your connection not just with your partner but also with others on the same journey, helping you build trust, deepen your bond, and grow together with the support of a like-minded community. You'll walk away feeling supported, inspired, and ready to elevate your relationship to new heights.
What You Get:
Quarterly Coaching Sessions (every 3 months), join a coaching session where you’ll receive tailored guidance, space to explore deeper topics, and tools to enhance your relationship.
Prefer to keep things a little private? Optional anonymity means you can choose audio-only, no video required.
Recordings to Revisit: All sessions are recorded as audio so you can listen back whenever you need a refresh or a reminder of what you learned. Perfect for those moments when you want to revisit a breakthrough or need a little extra inspiration.
Couples Dates is a guided journey through 3 key areas every couple needs for deeper connection, lasting desire, and playful intimacy. Each month, you’ll receive a 20-minute “play and follow along” date, delivered straight to your inbox and available on a course platform, so you can do it whenever suits you.
The journey is split into three themed ‘Labs,’ each with four monthly dates that build on one another—whether it’s enhancing communication, exploring desire, or deepening intimacy—helping your relationship grow, step by step.
You can dive into one area or enrol in the full program to receive a discount and experience the complete transformation.
The flow of topics is carefully designed to uncover underlying issues, whether they're rooted in communication or desire, guiding you to build stronger foundations and lasting change. By the end, you'll move beyond the "ho-hum" and into a thriving partnership, equipped with the skills to create a more connected, passionate, and fulfilling relationship.
Master Communication That Brings You Closer
Revolutionise the way you communicate in your relationship—with a twist of fun, intimacy, and that spark of desire you’ve been craving! Imagine being so tuned in with your partner that conversations flow effortlessly, even when life feels chaotic.
No more miscommunications or unmet needs—just a sense of ease and connection.
With playful, guided dates like The Connection Code and The Love Boost, you'll pick up quick and sexy tools that instantly amp up your communication, reignite passion, and melt away the mental load.
These aren’t just 'talks'—they’re gateways to more playfulness, deeper intimacy, and hotter sex. Let’s be honest: when you master conscious communication, everything else—your desire, your connection, and yes, your sex life—becomes juicier and more fulfilling.
Ready to make the shift from surviving family life to thriving as lovers?
Dec '24 - Mar '25
Turned On & Tuned In
Get ready to be Turned On & Tuned In with The Desire Lab—where your relationship goes from “just getting by” to thriving in desire and intimacy.
Feel like you’re living more like roommates than lovers?
With juicy, hands-on dates like From Roommates to Lovers and Fuel the Feels, you’ll reignite those electric touches and build the kind of intimacy that goes beyond words.
We’re talking moves that melt away stress, conversations that spark connection, and understanding what really turns each other on. These moments aren't just fleeting—they’re the foundation for a relationship that's passionate, playful, and deeply connected.
When you fuel desire in your relationship, everything shifts—your attraction, your sex life, and even how you show up in the daily grind.
It’s time to break the routine and create magic together.
April '25 - July '25
Exploring Arousal, Play, and Pleasure Together
Where arousal, play, and pleasure collide for an unforgettable experience with your partner.
This isn’t just about surface-level connection; it’s about diving deep into playful, sexy exploration.
With dates like Talk, Touch & Tune In, you’ll master the art of sexy communication that leads to real connection—not just in the bedroom, but in every part of your life together.
Think of More Than a Moment as your gateway to deep intimacy, moving from tantalising foreplay to full-blown connection that leaves you both craving more.
And if you’re feeling adventurous? Ties & Teases offers an exciting beginner's dive into BDSM play—perfect for bringing a little edge and thrill into your love life.
It all wraps up with From Layers to Love, where you’ll explore healing, holding, and the deep vulnerability that builds unshakable trust and intimacy.
Aug '25 - Nov '25
Month 1 - The Connection Code: Attachment, Breath, and Teamwork
Month 2 - The Love Boost: Daily Doses of Gifting, Gratitude, and Good Vibes
Month 3 - Get In Touch: Quick Cues for Closer Connection
Month 4 - Regulate & Reconnect: Soothing Strategies for When Things Get Hot
Month 1 - From Roommates to Lovers: Rekindling Touch Beyond the Bedroom
Month 2 - Fuel the Feels: Playful Conversations for Building Desire & Intimacy
Month 3 - Melt & Move: Moves That Create Deeper Intimacy
Month 4 - From Mixed Signals to Magic Moments: Understanding Desire & Attraction
Month 1 - Talk, Touch & Tune In: Sexy Communication for Real Connection
Month 2 - More Than a Moment: From foreplay to full connection
Month 3 - Ties & Teases: A Beginner’s Adventure into BDSM Play
Month 4 - From Layers to Love: Healing, Holding, and Being Held
$500
MONTHLY PAYMENT PLAN $145
For a communication upgrade - the foundation of great arousal, connection & sex!
Dec - March
$500
MONTHLY PAYMENT PLAN $145
For desire & arousal building - communicate on needs, wants, desires & bring polarity back!
April - July
$500
MONTHLY PAYMENT PLAN $145
For intimacy & sexual connection - sex-focused communication upgrade, try out new things & build on your sexual play!
Aug - Nov
BEST VALUE
$990
MONTHLY PAYMENT PLAN $99
Set yourselves & your relationship up for a year of connection + support with this 'set-it-and-forget it' program!
Includes ALL LABS + BONUS CONTENT
When you join me for a year of Dating Your Lover, you’re in for three sexy, sexy, sexy dates that will take your intimacy to an entirely new level. We’re not just talking about the usual date night—you’ll dive deep into understanding anatomy in ways you’ve never explored before, all while gaining the skills to bring new sensations, healing, and connection into your relationship.
These dates? They’re all about worship and devotion. You'll start with a Set Up Date, setting the scene for the most intimate exploration of each other. Then, move into Yoni Worship and Cock Worship—two sensual experiences designed to honor each other's bodies with reverence and passion, while also healing any hidden wounds from the past.
You’ll learn how to hold space for each other, bringing sexual trauma to light and transforming it, while elevating your foreplay and sex life to tantric levels you’ve only dreamed about.
Here's What You'll Receive:
✨ A Program Discount
Save when you commit to the full 12-month journey, gaining access to every transformative date experience.
🔥 3 Sizzling Bonus Dates to Supercharge Your Connection & Intimacy:
Set-Up Date: Start strong with a guided date to set intentions, build excitement, and lay the foundation for a year of deeper connection and growth.
Yoni Worship Experience: Explore intimacy and connection like never before with a guided experience that celebrates, honors, and deepens your understanding of her body and arousal.
Cock Worship Experience: A powerful, guided date experience that brings focus, reverence, and pleasure to his body, enhancing understanding, intimacy, and trust.
If you're ready to make real change in your relationship, consider these exclusive upgrades—available only to those on the 12-month Couples Dates journey. Get personalized support, tailored to your unique relationship needs, to help you make lasting progress.
For focused guidance delivered straight to your inbox, The Love Lab is your personalised support system. Start with a quiz to identify the top 3 areas in your relationship that need enhancement. Each month, you’ll receive an email with action steps, tips, and habit tweaks tailored to help you move closer to your relationship goals. Designed to be simple and actionable, these steps allow you to connect more deeply, improve communication, and build lasting love—all with support specific to your needs.
How it works:
Discover Your Focus Areas: Start with a personalised quiz to uncover the top 3 areas in your relationship that could benefit most from growth and support.
Tailored Monthly Guidance: Mid-month, alongside your date night video, you’ll receive an email from me with specific action steps, tools, and tips designed to bring you closer to your relationship goals—targeted for your unique needs.
Small Steps, Big Change: Put these easy-to-follow steps into action and see real progress. Each step is crafted to help you connect more deeply, communicate clearly, and build lasting love together.
Prices from $69/month
For more personalised, hands-on guidance, The Partnership Lab offers private monthly coaching sessions to deepen your relationship connection. Each session is tailored to what you and your partner need, helping you work through challenges that came up during your Couples Dates and providing real-time support to grow together.
Here's what’s Included:
Monthly 1:1 Coaching Sessions: Start each month with a private session designed to support your journey and address your relationship’s unique needs.
The Love Lab Email Support: In addition to your coaching sessions, you’ll receive the benefits of The Love Lab email guidance—tailored steps, tips, and reflections to keep you on track and help you meet your relationship goals.
Accountability & Ongoing Growth: With continuous support and accountability, you'll have the tools, encouragement, and guidance to deepen your connection month by month.
Prices from $200/month
A mother of four. A partner of 22 years. A trauma-responsive practitioner, who's travelled a path of awakening sexuality for connection, empowerment and fulfilment.
I deeply understand the complex mix of parenthood, relationship and sexuality:
- To feel like you no longer recognise your body, feel touched-out by parenthood and resentful of your partner.
- Mismatched sex drives
- Awkward or poor communication
- Wanting to let go, yet it is seems like the last thing you can do
- Craving to be taken, wanting to feel desirable and seen in all the ways, but not knowing how
- Wanting to meet your partner, only to feel like you always get it wrong and come crashing into old rejection wounds
It's okay. Leave your self-judgement at the door. We're here to grow, learn and step beyond our self-sabotage into deeply fulfilling connection with our body, partner and sexuality.
"Loving the content, we thought we knew a lot about each other but it’s surprising how much is not said. So the questions have been a great help to allow us to open up and learn more about one another. Even if you feel like your relationship is in a good place this content will definitely improve your relationship. Thank you for sharing your genius."
- Amanda
If you’re all in for creating a loved-up connection between you and your partner, bring back the passion, and create a relationship that feels exciting again – I’ll show you how!
Join Couples Dates and take the first step toward a thriving, connected partnership.
$500
MONTHLY PAYMENT PLAN $145
For a communication upgrade - the foundation of great arousal, connection & sex!
Dec - March
$500
MONTHLY PAYMENT PLAN $145
For desire & arousal building - communicate on needs, wants, desires & bring polarity back!
April - July
$500
MONTHLY PAYMENT PLAN $145
For intimacy & sexual connection - sex-focused communication upgrade, try out new things & build on your sexual play!
Aug - Nov
$990
MONTHLY PAYMENT PLAN $99
Set yourselves & your relationship up for a year of connection + support with this 'set-it-and-forget it' program!
Includes ALL LABS + BONUS CONTENT
We set up a date night, music & candles just in our room. Kids in bed. We were standing… just embracing. Swaying to the music. Kissing. I normally kiss with my eyes closed. Half way through I opened my eyes and we were really looking at each other kissing. He did something with his eyes & I literally melted. The next day I said to him, last night there was a moment… he knew it. He felt it too. I described it as melting, like the last ever exhale, like falling in love again. He said it felt like he wanted to inhale me.
I just wanted to let you know this is what doing the course has done for us. We have never experienced this in 20 odd years!
– Vicky
We really enjoyed it. It was both challenging (being seen, feeling vulnerable and connecting back into my body) and enjoyable at the same time. We enjoyed doing it via replay as we could pause and give ourselves more time to think about our answers and clarify anything to gain understanding when our partner provided their responses. It was wonderful and we feel connected today after doing the workshop. I can't wait to see where we will be in 12 months.
– Julia
It might sound funny but the choices of going to counselling, divorce, or Couples dates. Couples Dates won! I think the thought of him getting me back in the bedroom while working on our relationship was a much more attractive idea. Thank you, thank you, thank you–it really helped to explain to him how I've been feeling for years, without turning into one of our many same arguments where he gets defensive and I come out feeling like a bitch and just giving up and shutting down.
– Jo
We’re here to improve our communication and understanding of one another so we can take our pleasure to the level I have only dreamt about. I want to shake off stigma & shame and connect even deeper with each other.
- LH
I was able to sink deeper into my body and release tension that I didn't realise I was carrying, and most importantly, connect with my lover again. It feels like a long time coming and returning home. We did it two nights in a row, the second night we did it on our own without a video, and we made it our own – thank you!
– Myra
We both feel that it has been really beneficial. Especially the conflict styles bit. We feel it’s helping us to learn about each other and inch in the right direction.
– Jamie
IT’S YOUR LAST CHANCE TO TRANSFORM YOUR RELATIONSHIP INTO ALL THAT YOU DESIRE.
We did the date last night – OMG we both loved it! Such a great way to connect and reorient ourselves to each other after 16 years together it was such a fun way to be together!
– Sarah
Yes! This is a stand-alone experience, no pre-work required.
20-minute date once a month.
Coaching Pod session every three months, roughly an hour.
Replays will be sent to you and uploaded into your course platform.
If you upgrade to either VIP Lab, it is likely you will add another 10 minutes per month for email and 1-hour for a coaching session.
Ongoing access.
Yes. However, it is important for you to know the content will use gendered language, and centre around male and female genital and physical anatomy.
Do you want to be?
If the answer is 'yes', then this program is a chance to bring that energy and attention back to an area of life that's not functioning in a way that lights you up.
I'll be guiding you through every step and am here to help you grow, expand and create the type of intimacy you crave. No matter where you are, I'll help you get to where you want to be. But it will require you're both committed to the workshops and the process of 'coming back together'.
If you're committed to each other and creating deeper connection and intimacy, then I'm committed to getting you there.
If this is you, I'd recommend purchasing the full program and beginning with communication, then understanding your arousal and desire, before leaping into the Intimacy Lab.
Yes! I offer both individual and couple coaching and therapy sessions.
You can join my private membership group - Honey Club (women only).
Or purchase Lovers School if you'd like to expand your sexuality journey via an online, self-paced course.
This is a couples experience - however, if you'd like to follow along with a friend, you're more than welcome.