The CONNECTION LAB
Say, Hello to Date Night!
Reignite the spark in your relationship in just 12 dates
& create an intimacy and connection that lasts all year.
For Busy Couples Who Want More Connection (Without More To-Dos)
This isn't just another date night that leaves you talking about the same boring things or struggling to connect. It's about giving you and your partner a fun, meaningful way to bring back the passion, deepen your understanding of each other, and explore new depths of intimacy—all in easy, bite-sized experiences that fit into your busy lives.
The date was AMAZING! My hubby was able to deliver because he had step by step instructions. It was a VERY powerful moment of connection. The sex afterwards was also great!
– Kiara
What You’ll Experience after Date Night
Reignite your relationship with just a few meaningful moments each month. Break out of your routine, breathe new energy into each other, and explore intimacy and play without feeling overwhelmed or like you're making your relationship and intimacy feel like an obligation.
Each date is designed to help you:
➾ Experience new adventures beyond typical date nights.
➾ Rekindle passion, create lasting memories, and deepen your connection.
➾ Improve communication, understand each other on a deeper level, and cultivate a romantic atmosphere primed for love and connection.
➾ Grow into the best versions of your partnership, bringing back excitement and lasting change to your relationship.
“Seriously, my husband and I are having some of the best conversations,
the best sex and the best intimacy”
- Sarah
Why Couples Dates Works for You
At-Home Connection & Fun
Enjoy intimate date experiences right at home. Each session is designed to strengthen your bond without the need for babysitters, reservations, or fancy plans. Just you, your partner, and moments that bring you closer together.
Conversations You Didn’t Know You Needed
Couples Dates creates space for the deeper conversations you didn’t know you were missing. Get to know your partner in fresh ways, uncover hidden desires, and learn to communicate without barriers—all without feeling forced or uncomfortable.
New Skills for Lasting Passion
From lover skills to sensual connection, each session introduces playful activities, quick exercises, and new techniques that help you expand your intimacy and improve your sexual satisfaction. And don’t worry—it never feels like a “course.” Just easy, practical steps to grow together.
A Taste of Tantra & Sensuality
Explore tantra, deepen your sensual connection, and find new levels of sexual fulfilment. Couples Dates provides you with monthly activities and guided moments to bring more sensuality and satisfaction into your life—all while keeping it playful, fun, and real.
Is Date Night For You?
Couples Dates is for couples who WANT to be together. If you’re feeling disconnected, distant, or struggling with communication—yet there’s still that underlying desire to rekindle the passion, connection, and intimacy you know is possible—then this is for you.
If you’re busy parents or partners struggling to prioritise each other with everything else on your plate, but craving more connection, fun, and desire, you’re not alone. And if you’re looking to explore deeper intimacy without pressure, Couples Dates is designed to bring a playful, relaxed approach to making your relationship and sexual connection more exciting and fulfilling.
Say Goodbye to Decision Fatigue
I get it—date night shouldn’t be another item on your never-ending to-do list. It’s not something you want to feel pressure around, another thing to “get right,” or be disappointed about if it doesn’t happen. And you don’t want to be the one leading it, finding new ways to bring back the “spice,” or waiting for the perfect moment of spontaneity (that never quite arrives). It all feels heavy when you’re already maxed out with life.
That’s where Couples Dates comes in.
With ready-made date experiences, guided themes, and fun ways to connect, all you have to do is show up and enjoy each other—no planning or stress required.
Just 20 Minutes a Month to Grow Your Relationship
Every month, you get 20 minutes together to grow your connection, deepen intimacy, and find those moments of play, fun, and passion. Why 20 minutes? Because busy couples just like you told me that was the most “do-able” for them. You might not have an hour, but 20 minutes? That you can do.
And whether you’re mentally or emotionally drained, carving out just 20 minutes can be the easiest, most powerful way to invest in your relationship.
No excuses—just deeper love, stronger connection, and more joy together.
This is the easiest way to grow your emotional and sexual intimacy—bringing more fun, more connection, and more spice into your relationship. And it’s an investment in each other that will pay off in ways you can’t even imagine. Are you ready to get started?
"It was so great - thanks Julie! We couldn’t choose only one thing to take with us, we had 4! Loving these dates so much. They’ve paired so beautifully with the marriage counselling we’ve already done, but with more fun and body connection."
– Jules
This is NOT a program for couples who:
- Find their relationship on rocky ground right now
- Struggle to communicate and find they quicky 'explode'
- Are not willing to try new things and ways of responding to their partner
- Have different ideas on what they want from their ‘ideal’ relationship
- Are not prepared to have open and honest conversations with each other
WHAT DATE NIGHT INCLUDES
Monthly 20 minute Guided Dates
Each month, you'll receive an email with the theme and date night video link (plus access on the course platform anytime). Enjoy fun, easy activities to bond, rediscover each other, and explore your relationship—all from the comfort of home. Just click play and let the private date night fun begin!
**All dates are pre-recorded so that you CAN commit to the date with your partner at a time and place that suits you both each month.
WORKBOOK
- AKA THE SMOOTH SAILING GUIDE
This guidebook will help you set the mood, ask the deeper questions and encourage intimacy between you and your partner. Everything included is simple and designed to make Date Night something you both look forward to each month.
Quarterly Coaching Pods
We know that building a stronger relationship comes with its own challenges. That’s why Julie will split you into small, intimate ‘couple pods’ designed to support you. In this safe environment, you’ll connect with other couples, share openly, ask questions, and be vulnerable—all while receiving personalized guidance from Julie. These pods enhance your connection not just with your partner but also with others on the same journey, helping you build trust, deepen your bond, and grow together with the support of a like-minded community. You'll walk away feeling supported, inspired, and ready to elevate your relationship to new heights.
What You Get:
Quarterly Coaching Sessions (every 3 months), join a coaching session where you’ll receive tailored guidance, space to explore deeper topics, and tools to enhance your relationship.
Prefer to keep things a little private? Optional anonymity means you can choose audio-only, no video required.
Recordings to Revisit: All sessions are recorded as audio so you can listen back whenever you need a refresh or a reminder of what you learned. Perfect for those moments when you want to revisit a breakthrough or need a little extra inspiration.
How to Get Started
CHOOSe YOUR PATH
Couples Dates is a guided journey through 3 key areas every couple needs for deeper connection, lasting desire, and playful intimacy. Each month, you’ll receive a 20-minute “play and follow along” date, delivered straight to your inbox and available on a course platform, so you can do it whenever suits you.
The journey is split into three themed ‘Labs,’ each with four monthly dates that build on one another—whether it’s enhancing communication, exploring desire, or deepening intimacy—helping your relationship grow, step by step.
You can dive into one area or enrol in the full program to receive a discount and experience the complete transformation.
The flow of topics is carefully designed to uncover underlying issues, whether they're rooted in communication or desire, guiding you to build stronger foundations and lasting change. By the end, you'll move beyond the "ho-hum" and into a thriving partnership, equipped with the skills to create a more connected, passionate, and fulfilling relationship.
The 3 Key Labs for Relationship Growth
The Connection Lab
Master Communication That Brings You Closer
Start by laying down the foundation of connection. In this lab, you’ll learn how to communicate more effectively, truly understand each other, and dissolve the barriers that keep you apart. Create a shared language and a deeper emotional bond—because connection is where it all begins.
Dec '24 - Mar '25
The Desire Lab
Turned On & Tuned In
Now that your connection is strong, it’s time to explore desire. Rediscover what turns you on, tune into your own and your partner’s needs, and spark the playful energy that keeps passion alive. This lab is about finding your groove together and understanding what makes you feel deeply desired.
April '25 - July '25
The Intimacy Lab
Exploring Arousal, Play, and Pleasure Together
Finally, deepen your intimacy and learn how to play, explore, and enjoy each other in ways that feel safe, exciting, and new. Move beyond routines and create lasting pleasure that keeps your relationship vibrant. Explore the balance of vulnerability and adventure for a more fulfilling sex life.
Aug '25 - Nov '25
What's in the 12 guided Dates?
This is a 'choose your own adventure' style program.
Pick the 'Lab' you need now, or trust me to take you on a 12-month journey.
Dec '24 - Mar '25
The Connection Lab
Master Communication That Brings You Closer
Month 1 - The Connection Code: Attachment, Breath, and Teamwork
Month 2 - The Love Boost: Daily Doses of Gifting, Gratitude, and Good Vibes
Month 3 - Get In Touch: Quick Cues for Closer Connection
Month 4 - Regulate & Reconnect: Soothing Strategies for When Things Get Hot
April '25 - July '25
The Desire Lab
Turned On & Tuned In
Month 1 - From Roommates to Lovers: Rekindling Touch Beyond the Bedroom
Month 2 - Fuel the Feels: Playful Conversations for Building Desire & Intimacy
Month 3 - Melt & Move: Moves That Create Deeper Intimacy
Month 4 - From Mixed Signals to Magic Moments: Understanding Desire & Attraction
April '25 - July '25
The Intimacy Lab
Exploring Arousal, Play, and Pleasure Together
Month 1 - Talk, Touch & Tune In: Sexy Communication for Real Connection
Month 2 - More Than a Moment: From foreplay to full connection
Month 3 - Ties & Teases: A Beginner’s Adventure into BDSM Play
Month 4 - From Layers to Love: Healing, Holding, and Being Held
FULL PROGRAM BONUSES
Yours When You Enroll in the Full 12-Month Experience!
When you purchase the entire Couples Dates program, you don’t just get a discount—you unlock exclusive bonuses designed to ignite your connection, deepen healing, and enhance your understanding of each other's arousal and intimacy.
Here's What You'll Receive:
✨ A Program Discount
Save when you commit to the full 12-month journey, gaining access to every transformative date experience.
🔥 3 Sizzling Bonus Dates to Supercharge Your Connection & Intimacy:
Set-Up Date: Start strong with a guided date to set intentions, build excitement, and lay the foundation for a year of deeper connection and growth.
Yoni Worship Experience: Explore intimacy and connection like never before with a guided experience that celebrates, honors, and deepens your understanding of her body and arousal.
Cock Worship Experience: A powerful, guided date experience that brings focus, reverence, and pleasure to his body, enhancing understanding, intimacy, and trust.
These bonus dates are your chance to dive deeper, explore your desires, and build sizzling intimacy—right from the start! Secure your full program access and experience the magic.
UPGRADE OPTIONS
Take Your Couples Dates Journey to the Next Level
If you're ready to make real change in your relationship, consider these exclusive upgrades—available only to those on the 12-month Couples Dates journey. Get personalized support, tailored to your unique relationship needs, to help you make lasting progress.
The Love Lab: Tailored Email Support
For focused guidance delivered straight to your inbox, The Love Lab is your personalised support system. Start with a quiz to identify the top 3 areas in your relationship that need enhancement. Each month, you’ll receive an email with action steps, tips, and habit tweaks tailored to help you move closer to your relationship goals. Designed to be simple and actionable, these steps allow you to connect more deeply, improve communication, and build lasting love—all with support specific to your needs.
The Partnership Lab: Monthly Private Coaching
+ The Love Lab Email Support
For more personalised, hands-on guidance, The Partnership Lab offers private monthly coaching sessions to deepen your relationship connection. Each session is tailored to what you and your partner need, helping you work through challenges that came up during your Couples Dates and providing real-time support to grow together.
Here's what’s Included:
Monthly 1:1 Coaching Sessions: Start each month with a private session designed to support your journey and address your relationship’s unique needs.
The Love Lab Email Support: In addition to your coaching sessions, you’ll receive the benefits of The Love Lab email guidance—tailored steps, tips, and reflections to keep you on track and help you meet your relationship goals.
Accountability & Ongoing Growth: With continuous support and accountability, you'll have the tools, encouragement, and guidance to deepen your connection month by month.
Choose Your Upgrade
Whether you choose the tailored email support of The Love Lab or the private, in-depth coaching of The Partnership Lab (which includes The Love Lab support), both upgrades are designed to help you create real change, build connection, and make the most out of your Couples Dates journey.
ADD THE LOVE LAB for $
ADD THE PARTNERSHIP LAB (includes The Love Lab) for $
Hi, I'm Jules
A mother of four. A partner of 22 years. A trauma-responsive practitioner, who's travelled a path of awakening sexuality for connection, empowerment and fulfilment.
I deeply understand the complex mix of parenthood, relationship and sexuality:
- To feel like you no longer recognise your body, feel touched-out by parenthood and resentful of your partner.
- Mismatched sex drives
- Awkward or poor communication
- Wanting to let go, yet it is seems like the last thing you can do
- Craving to be taken, wanting to feel desirable and seen in all the ways, but not knowing how
- Wanting to meet your partner, only to feel like you always get it wrong and come crashing into old rejection wounds
It's okay. Leave your self-judgement at the door. We're here to grow, learn and step beyond our self-sabotage into deeply fulfilling connection with our body, partner and sexuality.
"Loving the content, we thought we knew a lot about each other but it’s surprising how much is not said. So the questions have been a great help to allow us to open up and learn more about one another. Even if you feel like your relationship is in a good place this content will definitely improve your relationship. Thank you for sharing your genius."
- Amanda
Make Your Relationship a Priority—No Matter How Busy Life Gets.
If you’re all in for creating a loved-up connection between you and your partner, bring back the passion, and create a relationship that feels exciting again – I’ll show you how!
Join Couples Dates and take the first step toward a thriving, connected partnership.
“We have noticed how good we are after a date.”
- Melanie
REMEMBER, YOU’RE NOT ALONE IN WANTING A LOVING & CONNECTED RELATIONSHIP.
Here’s what couples (just like you) are saying about Date Night.
We set up a date night, music & candles just in our room. Kids in bed. We were standing… just embracing. Swaying to the music. Kissing. I normally kiss with my eyes closed. Half way through I opened my eyes and we were really looking at each other kissing. He did something with his eyes & I literally melted. The next day I said to him, last night there was a moment… he knew it. He felt it too. I described it as melting, like the last ever exhale, like falling in love again. He said it felt like he wanted to inhale me.
I just wanted to let you know this is what doing the course has done for us. We have never experienced this in 20 odd years!
– Vicky
We really enjoyed it. It was both challenging (being seen, feeling vulnerable and connecting back into my body) and enjoyable at the same time. We enjoyed doing it via replay as we could pause and give ourselves more time to think about our answers and clarify anything to gain understanding when our partner provided their responses. It was wonderful and we feel connected today after doing the workshop. I can't wait to see where we will be in 12 months.
– Julia
It might sound funny but the choices of going to counselling, divorce, or Couples dates. Couples Dates won! I think the thought of him getting me back in the bedroom while working on our relationship was a much more attractive idea. Thank you, thank you, thank you–it really helped to explain to him how I've been feeling for years, without turning into one of our many same arguments where he gets defensive and I come out feeling like a bitch and just giving up and shutting down.
– Jo
We’re here to improve our communication and understanding of one another so we can take our pleasure to the level I have only dreamt about. I want to shake off stigma & shame and connect even deeper with each other.
- LH
I was able to sink deeper into my body and release tension that I didn't realise I was carrying, and most importantly, connect with my lover again. It feels like a long time coming and returning home. We did it two nights in a row, the second night we did it on our own without a video, and we made it our own – thank you!
– Myra
We both feel that it has been really beneficial. Especially the conflict styles bit. We feel it’s helping us to learn about each other and inch in the right direction.
– Jamie
DATE NIGHT IS HERE ...
IT’S YOUR LAST CHANCE TO TRANSFORM YOUR RELATIONSHIP INTO ALL THAT YOU DESIRE.
We did the date last night – OMG we both loved it! Such a great way to connect and reorient ourselves to each other after 16 years together it was such a fun way to be together!
– Sarah
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
Can we join as beginners?
Yes! This is a stand-alone experience, no pre-work required.
What is my time commitment to this program?
20-minute date once a month.
Coaching Pod session every three months, roughly an hour.
Replays will be sent to you and uploaded into your course platform.
If you upgrade to either VIP Lab, it is likely you will add another 10 minutes per month for email and 1-hour for a coaching session.
How long will I have access to the Dates content?
Ongoing access.
Can we join as non-binary or same sex couples?
Yes. However, it is important for you to know the content will use gendered language, and centre around male and female genital and physical anatomy.
What if my partner and I haven't been intimate in a really long time?
Do you want to be?
If the answer is 'yes', then this program is a chance to bring that energy and attention back to an area of life that's not functioning in a way that lights you up.
I'll be guiding you through every step and am here to help you grow, expand and create the type of intimacy you crave. No matter where you are, I'll help you get to where you want to be. But it will require you're both committed to the workshops and the process of 'coming back together'.
If you're committed to each other and creating deeper connection and intimacy, then I'm committed to getting you there.
If this is you, I'd recommend purchasing the full program and beginning with communication, then understanding your arousal and desire, before leaping into the Intimacy Lab.
Are you able to support me after the program?
Yes! I offer both individual and couple coaching and therapy sessions.
You can join my private membership group - Honey Club (women only).
Or purchase Lovers School if you'd like to expand your sexuality journey via an online, self-paced course.
Can I join as a single person?
This is a couples experience - however, if you'd like to follow along with a friend, you're more than welcome.
